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A lot of men are watching our podcast but they won't comment but they'll send text messages and responses. I'm going to try to approach this lightly. Look, and it's amazing to me, how many people are projecting their insecurities or their and let's just say it, most of them are or their and let's just say it most of them are.
Speaker 3:This is Legra.
Speaker 1:This is Stephanie, this is Cherie and this is Ivanya. And this is Timeless and Unfiltered where we are spilling the tea on midlife one laugh at a time.
Speaker 3:Welcome back to another episode of Timeless and Unfiltered. I'm Stephanie. That was so mechanical Because this ain't my thing, it's her thing. I like that. I'm Cherise, and we are spilling the tea on midlife. One laugh at a time.
Speaker 1:Take it away, Laker, I know You're so crazy. Well, y'all might notice we're missing one. She's here in spirit. She's here in spirit. She's here in spirit.
Speaker 2:Well, you know this is what Grad graduation season, travel season.
Speaker 1:Yeah, so we're missing Avanya today, but she'll be back. She'll be back, but over the next couple of weeks all our schedules are crazy, so it's going to be a few episodes that one of us might be missing. Yeah, throughout the summer. Yeah, one of us might be missing, because that's what we're outside.
Speaker 1:In these streets. We're outside, okay, but, um, this I'm trying to see how we're going to approach this topic today. Well, let's start with it's been amazing couple of weeks since we've launched our podcast and it's amazing the demographics that are watching our podcast. But a lot of men are watching our podcast. They are.
Speaker 2:But they won't comment. No, we're a guilty pleasure.
Speaker 1:But they'll send text messages. Yes, and responses.
Speaker 3:Right yeah.
Speaker 1:They'll send text messages and things. Comment I'm going to try to approach this lightly. Look, so you know.
Speaker 2:You don't approach it lightly.
Speaker 1:Go on, I'm going to try to, you know. So your phone ain't blowing up this week, stephanie, don't nobody like me, so your phone not blowing up this week. No, we're going to talk about, let's talk about, I don't know. Do you want to be married, not being married? Are you here for a relationship? You're here for a good time. You know just kind of where we are. And this all kind of came up too because we know that Stephanie is, was I don't know which term to use in a relationship. I'm not anymore. I was going to let you say it. You don't like me anymore, you know. But you know what I always say things, I mean things, happen for a season.
Speaker 1:I'm sick of these seasons, I know girl, I know what's it Winter, spring, summer, fall I'll give of these seasons. I know, girl, I know what's it Winter, spring, summer, fall I'll give you my all For a season Because it was Laverne Right For a season. I love them For a season, but it's amazing to me how many men are watching our podcast that are commenting privately. Yeah, but they won't comment on the episode. They won't, but.
Speaker 1:but they want you to acknowledge, but they want you to acknowledge something that you've said on the on the show and I'm going to say you probably are getting more of a hit than that than we are, than we are. You want to? You want to explain a little bit, or no? I love everybody. Well, this is my feeling. This is my feeling, and we talked about this briefly before we started filming.
Speaker 1:Our podcast is about our experiences and it's amazing to me how many people are projecting their insecurities or their and let's just say it, most of them are men, projecting their insecurities or their lack of something that they think they may have done or didn't do. First of all, we haven't named anybody's names at all. And what do we always say? A hit dog will holler. So if you feel the need to call or to text because an experience or something that we've shared has triggered something that you think, now you need to respond to. Now we also have men saying y'all need to have a man on the couch. You need to have a man on the couch. Why do we need to have a man on the couch?
Speaker 3:Because we're not talking about men, a different perspective.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but we're not talking about men. We've made some comments. No, let's start with this. You've made some comments, but you've made, but I feel like you've made them from general and from my experience, your experiences from my experiences, like when I say men don't approach me when I'm out, or and that's your experience that's been my experience, so but so now we need men to explain now they feel why they don't approach me.
Speaker 3:I guess one told me I look mean as shit. So it's like look at you. You look mean. I was like, oh, okay, well I'm not for you walking around cheesing all the time. I'm not. That's just not the person I am. And what's crazy is that my last relationship.
Speaker 3:I gave him much respect because no one approaches me, and the fact that he approached me I was like finally somebody talking about that, but when I think in hindsight, it's because I was coming out of a bar singing and dancing and having a good time, but you always are and I look always even. But even if, yeah, you're in the bar, you know I'm down, I'm having a good time.
Speaker 3:And people don't say anything. Yes, and I actually had a friend's husband tell me years ago. He was a Kappa and we were at a Kappa casino night. I think I was in my early 30s and I was there with him and his wife, third wheel forever and we were there and he came up he said, steph, he was like so many of my bros want to approach you, but you look mean and they are scared to say something to you and I'm like what? And you're dancing and I know you. No, well, me and her were just in the corner talking. At the time I wasn't, we had on suits and we were just like that. So he was like listen, please, try this. He said please. He said said please. He said go over there, talk to my wife he said act like y'all laughing, crack some jokes.
Speaker 3:He said please smile and act like you're fun.
Speaker 3:And I'm like why I got to do this like jesus and I was like whatever and so I was like girl this is so crazy girl that I got to and people started talking to me and so I learned that a lot of men, I think, like I said, I feel like I have a resting bitch face a lot of times and so people are scared. I said I feel like I have a resting bitch face a lot of times and so people are scared to approach me and that's why I'm like very approachable and I'm not rude, I'm not going to be like get away from me, why are you talking? I'm not that lady, but I guess my face gives that off. And so when I started doing that, then people would approach me. So, like I said in my last relationship, I was coming out to bar having a good time and I guess he felt like she look a little fun. Hey, where you going? You taking a party with you? Where you going? Come on back in, I think. And that's because no one talks to me.
Speaker 3:So then I just we latched on and we had a lot in common or whatever. Y'all better catch me when I'm out. Do you think it's because a lot of men are them out? I do think so and I I thank god that built y'all up for that. I just I can't take rejection, that's all. I could never be a man, because I know they're. They're like just built for a lot of rejection. They have to take a lot of rejection, and so I don take a lot of rejection, and so I don't know, I feel bad for y'all. I'm still not saying nothing to you, though.
Speaker 1:I'm like we just all gonna be rejected because I ain't saying nothing to you so you don't see men or see someone and be like, ooh, you just sit there the whole time and say, ooh, I hope he come talk to me, uh that listen, listen.
Speaker 3:I did that two times in my life and my dad always told me. When I was 19, he said men are the hunters. Yes, and women are hunted. And two times in my life I decided I'm gonna say something to this and got my face cracked. And then that's when I realized that men have a preference so the one dude that I thought was cute and was trying to talk to.
Speaker 3:He only liked light-skinned women and so I was too dark for him, so he went. He went my type. And then I tried talking to another guy we out there dancing like yeah, yeah, yeah. He's. Like yeah, you're a little too little for me. I like your home girl because she was a thick, voluptuous woman and I was like damn so. That's why I was like I'm not approaching a man, because men have their preferences. They know, know what they like. I'm not trying to get rejected?
Speaker 2:Yeah, we do. We have our preferences, we know what we like, so if they approach us, then they're getting rejected as well.
Speaker 3:I do it in a nice way.
Speaker 1:Why she do all of this.
Speaker 2:I mean whoever I don't know. For me and you guys know this I don't have a problem going to say something to somebody.
Speaker 3:I'm a rafters.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I don't have a problem approaching somebody because it's 50-50. You never know if you don't try. And you know I come from the old school, the old rules, but I don't live by, you know.
Speaker 3:I don't live by Frank.
Speaker 1:Sinatra, I always do it, my way.
Speaker 2:So I don't live by any of those rules anyway. But you have a 50-50 chance. I'm a punk.
Speaker 3:I can't, I ain't made up like that.
Speaker 2:You know I cry, but rejection doesn't bother me either.
Speaker 1:I know this is going to sound really terrible but I'm not rejected very often. But I also don't approach very often. Oh, this is, I don't approach very often. Oh, this is gonna sound so mean and terrible. I don't like people very often yeah, well, no, that's not me.
Speaker 1:I rarely see, I think, younger me, younger me, I think, saw a lot of the physical traits of men that I liked and so be like, hey you know, and then a lot of. Well, I think two things are a little bit different than they were back then, and especially two with, at our age, younger me, you just kind of made yourself available.
Speaker 1:I'm gonna go walk to the bar, because sometimes we, because we're in a herd, with the hen house yeah, men don't want to come into the hen house because now not only are you being rejected, but it's also in front of the girlfriends and all that kind of stuff. Men used to send drinks because we kind of had this conversation a little bit on your episode.
Speaker 1:Men used to send drinks. You know, do you send one or you got to send the whole table, all that kind of thing. So sometimes you got to pull yourself out the herd. Pull yourself out the herd. I don't care if you go into the ladies room. I can't tell you how many times you just go into the ladies room and see, and that's a pet peeve for me. That's a pet peeve for me, not that you're talking to me, but don't grab me.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 1:I never like that. You can do that, you know, excuse me, you know, or something like that, but that grab thing, see then the other leg kind of come out. And I'm not as pleasant Because I just, first of all, you don't know me but you don't ever right.
Speaker 1:Don't invade my personal space like that, but I don't know. But now I think when I'm out like the grocery store getting something to eat, like it ain't even the club scene no more, it's the gas station or whatever, I don't know, if just I got a filter on or something Like the physical is not as important to me anymore. So you not approaching me, I don't. I rarely see men I'm attracted to physically. I know that sound crazy. I'm attracted to power. I've noticed that I love a man that got some some power crazy, I'm attracted to power. I've noticed that I love a man that got some power body. I love a big boy with some swag. The only thing I can say I don't really like is skinny.
Speaker 3:It's thin.
Speaker 1:But that's my insecurity. You know what I'm saying. Like I ain't going to be the fat bitch in a relationship with your little skinny ass.
Speaker 2:You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:We got enough body issues Right, little skinny ass.
Speaker 3:You know what I'm saying we got enough body issues right. It's concerns already I ain't gonna never be with.
Speaker 1:I ain't gonna be the big one and you the little skinny brother. But that also was part of the tomboy in me, because I'm still I just heard what's his face tomboyish we ain't gonna do nothing, right?
Speaker 3:I need you to have some meat on your body, right?
Speaker 1:like I'm. I think I go into I'm kind of protective. Well, y'all already know I'm protective of my friends. I'm protective of my family. I'm protective of my circle and and family don't mean blood and that's my relationships. You. You part of my family. I'm very protective of that. So when I'm with a person that's smaller or than me, I'm in a more of a protective mode, which is why I like bigger men I like taller men whatever, because I like to feel protected, cause you know I have a little, not that little men aren't strong.
Speaker 1:No, they're not. I mean, I'm not saying that they're not, but this is my preference and us, and saying our preferences is cracking me up and that kind of brings us back to the conversation with you when we stating what we like or what we've been through our preferences. It's amazing to me how people watching have internalized that to say I'm not talking about who, say I'm talking about you, I'm talking about what I like.
Speaker 2:What I like or what has happened to me and how now you've projecting your insecurities and now you feel the need to text me privately because you got some, because I said something about what I like or what.
Speaker 1:I want or whatever. So that was kind of how that circle back to that. But yeah, I don't, I don't meet, I'm I'm rarely attracted to anybody anymore and I notice that's crazy. Um, as much as I do love love, yeah, I do, I love love, but the things that were so important to me before, just not that important to me anymore.
Speaker 3:What's your credit score? What's your social security check? Look like.
Speaker 1:No, it ain't even that. Because one is because just education, of learning what credit can do for our lives. If you and I are to get together, I don't care what your profession is, you know it's this one. It's this one thing on um instagram and facebook, um the gold digger pranks. Do y'all ever watch those, the gold digger pranks?
Speaker 2:I love that where the ladies be walking and they'll see the guy with the car and then they'll turn around and try to talk to me.
Speaker 1:He's like no, yeah, yeah he, the guy, is walking down the street. He'll walk up to a young lady, lady, and he'll be like hey, how you doing. You look, you're beautiful. Are you talking to me?
Speaker 2:Don't talk to me or whatever, whatever.
Speaker 1:And you know, and he's like, you know, my name is such and such and she, what's your name? I don't got one.
Speaker 2:No name, none of your business. They do that whole thing.
Speaker 1:They do that whole. Thing. And he'd be like you know what, you have a good day, and then he'd go to get in a nice car and they'd turn around Girl, they'd be running back tapping on the windows all that kind of stuff that's so terrible. Cracks me up, cracks me up, and it's amazing that that's what our young generation has come to.
Speaker 3:And not even just young, because there's some older ones in there too. So we can't blame the young kids mean acting.
Speaker 1:We can't blame the young kids. You saw his nice car and then all of a sudden, but I can tell you right now a lot of people with a lot of things that they're. That don't mean they're generous show don't.
Speaker 1:I want a generous man and that. And a generous man is a giver and he don't have to have all that money. He might finds a way to make you feel special. And generosity doesn't mean money, it does not, it doesn't, it doesn't mean money. So I think now when I, when I'm out and I see men, I just see them differently, you know. So, yeah, your credit score is important to me because I know what your credit score can do for us, for us. If you got bad credit, okay, let's, let's get your credit fixed. That don't mean I won't, I won't talk to you. Okay, now we don't keep get, keep getting it fixed. Right, that part, but it is that, because you know but it's your.
Speaker 1:It's because now I look at money different. Yeah, I look at money differently. Um prime example, we're going to close on a investment property credit.
Speaker 1:They looked at credit, they wanted to see bank statements and now they're financing 93% we don't have to come to the table with no money because you had the credit, you have the this and now you can go to go and buy it, buy investment property. So we have the potential to purchase this property, literally coming to the table with like ten thousand dollars. Ok, and we, you know we're getting that whole other that's a whole nother conversation of how you don't even have to have ten thousand dollars. But do you have good credit? Do you have a credit card that you got five thousand on this one and five thousand on this one credit? Do you have a credit card that you got 5,000 on this one and 5,000 on this one? Now you can go get you a house, a house and the people will give you the loan to fix it up, and now I'm going to flip this house and this potential home is a hundred thousand dollar profit.
Speaker 1:But if your house ain't in order, see, now I'm looking at men differently because I want some things in my life and I want you to be able. What can we do together? So that whole topic of what you bring to the table are you bringing a credit score to the table? That's what I need. I need you to have good credit, because if you got good credit. I can help you If you already don't know how to leverage your credit to be able to get access to funding. To what you want to start a business, baby, you know to what you want to start a business baby. You know what business you want to start.
Speaker 1:You got good credit okay, let me show you how you can get the money to start that business because you got a good credit score. So when I look at men, I'll you know my look is a little differently right now. It's a little, it's just, it's just different, but I don't know if that's age, is that maturity? Is that education? I don't know what it is.
Speaker 3:I think all of it. And life experiences.
Speaker 2:I think it's all of it, and I think that um everybody look for something different right so, like you said, I love power, I want credit.
Speaker 1:I'm attracted. You know what I?
Speaker 2:mean everybody have something different? Did they just they want and or need? You know what I mean in a relationship? Now, I do think that's important. I'm not maturity we're not going backwards and trying to figure out the credit and get your score up and all of that stuff Like that's over, right, Right. But yeah, it's just for everybody, it's something different. Yeah, no, I still like sexy, though now Don't get me wrong, Because you know it's just for everybody.
Speaker 1:It's something different. I still like sexy, though now Don't get me wrong, Because you know she's still got to percolate when I see her Right. But you want to make me percolate? Come with a good credit score. Oh geez, Come with a good credit score.
Speaker 3:Maybe I'm at a 9.10.
Speaker 1:You know what I'm saying. Well, I like to see a man that's at this age of my life doing this thing. Whatever that is, I don't even care. That's what I'm saying, your profession is not important to me anymore. You know, back in the day you wanted a man that did this or you wanted to do that. That's not important to me anymore. What are you doing now and in your fifties? I don't have a lot of time for people.
Speaker 2:That's fixing to or getting ready to, or one day I want to.
Speaker 1:And I'm going. Well, when does that day start? Because we in our 50s- bro.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's like the 40-something wanting to be a rapper, what?
Speaker 1:He's still chasing that career, but it's what you said Tell me wrong, because Killer Mike just won all kind of Grammys.
Speaker 3:Yeah, and all that kind of stuff Shout out to Killer Mike, but he was still chasing the dream to get there.
Speaker 2:Yeah, at 40-something, I hear you 40-something, you can't tell me.
Speaker 3:I'm still trying to be a rapper, so I'm still saying that, Well, if not, then when it's like to me, it's never too late to try to do what you want to do.
Speaker 2:But remember, we just said we're all different. We just said we're all different.
Speaker 1:I mean we all want something different. So for me, you guys, it's just not my life. For me, I'm looking at what you're doing. It's not that you, it's not that you can't. First of all, you know, you can always start something new.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's never too late.
Speaker 1:It's never too late, but I think I'm over the dreamer yeah, I think I.
Speaker 3:We dreamed back then.
Speaker 1:Now you got in your 50s, you got to be doing. Doing it got to be in motion.
Speaker 2:Even if you're not.
Speaker 1:I'm not where I want to be. I'm not where I want to be, but I'm still.
Speaker 2:I don't think any of us are. I'm still trying to get there.
Speaker 1:I'm still trying to get there. But that person that sits back and just say, one day I'm going to well, when is one day? When you're in your 50s?
Speaker 3:When they wait for you to help them do it.
Speaker 1:When you're in your 50s.
Speaker 3:So yeah, so I'm you know.
Speaker 1:But it's just, these are our own preferences, these are our own experiences that we've had, and it's just been amazing to me how our male audience has something to say Privately, though privately, comment. Look whichever camera, comment on if you got something to say I got. Privately, though privately comment whichever camera. Yeah, comment. If you got something to say, comment on it?
Speaker 1:Yeah, we look at comments, we respond we look at all the comments yeah, you ain't got to call privately, you ain't got to text privately and a hit dog will holler the conversation might not even have been about you, and I think it's interesting.
Speaker 2:I think I talked to you. I may have said something to you, aunt Stephanie, but we did that one on marriage with Cheryl and You're either married or you're single right. Right and so several people actually said something to my boo about she's sitting out there talking about she's single. What are y'all talking about? Like I'm not married. The people that reach out and say something to her about this podcast thing. It's like crazy, I'm not, and the fact that I had to talk about that?
Speaker 2:Yeah, and based on what was happening, you were married or you were single Right. What are we talking about?
Speaker 3:Or married and unmarried, right, but they're watching and make comments to you.
Speaker 2:Right, they are watching, but that's why Y'all know, I told y'all I don't even go back and watch and look at the comments, because you know my personality can't take it your personality disorder. I can't. I'm too wired for all of that. Like what?
Speaker 1:What are we doing, but to your?
Speaker 2:point they are watching. Yeah, but why y'all have to do that negative stuff? It's just ridiculous.
Speaker 1:It's funny, it's funny, it's the world. We making your life hard over there, stephanie.
Speaker 3:It's funny, it's funny. So we start making your life hard over there, stephanie, but it's already hard.
Speaker 2:I mean, I'm sure it's hard. One of the things we talked about is that grieving you know when it's over it is, you have to mourn and grieve.
Speaker 1:It doesn't mean it's easy.
Speaker 2:You know those kind of decisions are, they're just really hard. And then when you get on here and you're making all of us, when we're saying things we're not none of us are like this. We're not saying anything negative towards the person we were with currently with at all. We're having generalized conversations like talking about men. I'm not even one of them, God, but I sit here and have these conversations right, and she could be like, well, damn, I want people to know, but that's not what we're doing.
Speaker 1:We're just having generalized conversations.
Speaker 2:And so we can't just take everything and personalize it to ourself to appease somebody else. You kind of need you, not kind of. You need people who are strong enough to withstand whatever you're talking about and they're okay because they know that y'all are good, mm-hmm you're just having a conversation. So it is what you said the hit dogs will have conversations. The feedback that follow up is a lot from the guys apart that you've had our conversation about boundaries yeah, about boundaries.
Speaker 1:And I, you know, I'm the first person to tell everybody don't listen to me, because you will be single, because I. One thing I have learned and it's taken me time to get here is I have very strict and firm boundaries. If it disrupts my peace, oh absolutely. If it disrupts my peace, if you and I are in a relationship and we are no longer together, I don't need to call you no more and there's no conversation. We don't need to talk. I'm okay with that. But what you're not gonna do is call me with your tricks because something has triggered you and now you need to project that back onto me. We're together. We're not together if we're not together what I could say.
Speaker 1:Whatever I want to say about how I feel and my feelings, my perspective, same way you can do the same about your feelings and all those kind of things. But what you can't do is call me to bother me with your right no, I agree with that 100.
Speaker 2:That's called setting boundaries, I agree with that 100%.
Speaker 1:That's called setting boundaries 100%. I agree with that. You cannot disrupt my peace and you're in a mourning period. This is a mourning period, so that constant antagonizing that just keeps ripping the band-aid back off, yeah, you got to heal. Give yourself time to heal, and that's when you got to set boundaries. Set boundaries. And you know, and I know, your, your ex, I like him, me too, from what I know of him, but I'm not in a relationship with him. You know, you know what I'm saying. I like him and so it's no, it's that's what I'm saying. It's never, it's not anything negative. That's the same thing with me and my ex-husband. My ex-husband, my ex-husband is a great guy. We're just not meant to be together. It don't take away from him being a great guy he's not a bad that's what
Speaker 2:I'm like and you've never said anything about him he's like man, he's so much fun, or whatever.
Speaker 1:And because the two of you don't make it in a relationship, don't take away any from who from him from him being a great guy or you being a great woman. It just weren't meant for y'all two to be together. Yeah, that's it, you know. But?
Speaker 3:all that.
Speaker 1:No, she'll be. Yeah, I know, but that constant this, this, this, that just keeps ripping that band-aid back off, You're going to have to set your boundaries Because I might have some shit I need him to fix around here one day. So don't be mad. I'll be like Stephanie, y'all cool. Yet I'm going to find somebody else and I'll be like can you call him? And let him come fix that over there for me, because he good at what he do he great he is. But not over here.
Speaker 3:I'm not petty like that and I know you're not.
Speaker 1:And you know that's a whole other conversation, right, that is a whole nother conversation.
Speaker 3:Right Like for real.
Speaker 2:That is a whole nother conversation about exes and then those connections.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 1:My ex-husband. We're going to be filming an episode in Jamaica in a couple of weeks. Ok, all four of us will be together in Jamaica. I called and invited my ex-husband and his wife to come, that's so progressive Because my son is going to be there. My son is going to be there. My son is going to be there and we've never all been in the same, whatever. At the same time, I don't have anything against his current wife. He's a great guy.
Speaker 2:That's an interesting topic. So, progressive, and let me tell you why that's an interesting topic.
Speaker 1:Because, oh my gosh, that would be a really good topic. Okay, well, we're going to hold it there for another episode, then that's a good topic Because it's so progressive, it's so progressive that I can just hear all the comments.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Okay.
Speaker 3:Maybe we all set up.
Speaker 1:Well, we already know we're going to have to talk about that next episode. We're going to have to talk about that next episode because we're going to get off of here. We we're going to have to talk about that next episode because we're going to get off of here.
Speaker 1:We miss you, evonja, we do. We miss you, but we're done for today. But listen, man, we are not talking about you at all. Look in every camera, all right, at all we are not talking about you. We are talking about our experiences. But we would love to hear from you.
Speaker 2:We would love to hear from you. So we would love to hear from you. So that was just a little people. Yeah, in general, we would love to hear from you.
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Speaker 2:Come on and talk to us live.
Speaker 1:Ask some questions, defend yourself. Yeah, dog me out, since you feel like you need to defend yourself, all those kind of things. But anyway, y'all this is Timeless and Unfiltered. I'm Legra, I'm Stephanie, I'm.
Speaker 2:Cherise, and we're missing.
Speaker 1:Avanya, but we're going to keep coming back spilling it to your midlife one life at to talk to y'all later.