Timeless & Unfiltered
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Timeless & Unfiltered
Highlights of Season 1
In this Part 1 Highlights video, we're giving you a front-row seat to some of the funniest, most honest, and unforgettable moments from our latest episode.
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Speaker 3:This is Lagra. This is Stephanie. This is Cherie.
Speaker 2:And this is Ivanya, and this is Evania. And this is Timeless and Unfiltered, where we are spilling the tea on midlife, one laugh at a time. Damn, we got kids Y'all making us talk about the kids. Well, I am Legra. I am the creator of Timeless and Unfiltered, since we talking about children. I have one son who happens to be the EP of our show. Unfiltered, since we talked about children. I have one son who happens to be the EP.
Speaker 2:he's the best and I have an adopted son. You don't know it yet. He's my adopted son. I am a little bit everything. I'm a serial entrepreneur and I'm just. This idea just came in my mind because I am 55.
Speaker 3:And looking fine.
Speaker 2:Lifetime fanny.
Speaker 4:And looking fine, yeah, come on.
Speaker 2:But something happened about 50. Something happened about 50. There was a shift in the atmosphere. I wasn't a hot girl, no more. You still are, you are. I am to the youngins now. I don't get carded anymore.
Speaker 1:I'm a lot of things.
Speaker 3:I work hard, I work a lot, and now I'm co-host and I am finding my voice. I am blossoming, I'm growing. And now I'm co-host Yay, and I am finding my voice. I am blossoming, I'm growing and I'm just so proud to be here with you, ladies. Aww, I'm sorry I forgot to talk about my kids. Oh okay, go ahead, go watch your kids. I got kids, three of them. The body made me feel like shit. She's like am I mother?
Speaker 5:I was like shit disregarded my children.
Speaker 1:I had three children.
Speaker 2:I love them. I didn't either. So three daughters, beautiful daughters, adults, damn it right. Well, let's kind of tell them a little bit how our, our podcast is going to work. Yeah, oh yeah we're going to talk about some topics. You guys can suggest topics for us. Oh wait, I'm sorry, I forgot to introduce our fifth co-host.
Speaker 3:Oh, I'm looking in your eyeball. I know right your hair. I'm like where is it? I don't see it.
Speaker 2:I know this is our fifth co-host because of the hot flashes. Hello midlife, the hot flashes. You will see this come out quite often. I usually try to slide it in on the side or something, but uh, you'll see, you'll see our fifth co-host this fan this is real and raw real and raw because I will melt in front of this camera if I don't have it.
Speaker 2:So this, my fan follows me everywhere and you'll, you'll hear, uh, stephanie a few times with some of her little weird um, and we gonna say weird they're true, her little, weird little ways of fixing things.
Speaker 3:It's true.
Speaker 2:Scientifically I'm a nerd.
Speaker 3:It's true, like clutching your butt cheeks if you're going to cry Hiccups, how to stop the hiccups? How to stop the hiccups, and I've just seen that if you lay, if you're gassy, if you sleep on your stomach and lift your butt, that'll help with the release. What See? Okay, we doing the red. No, might as well we in there now. I'm sick and tired of being in the box. I'm also sick and tired of if I pee I mean not if I cough or sneeze a pee on myself.
Speaker 2:Sorry, it's gonna happen to everybody not being included, not on the couch. Not only don't laugh hard, it's gonna happen.
Speaker 3:Um, I'm sick and tired of the younger women coming up to me saying auntie, I have 12 nieces and 12 nephews. You're not one of them, so don't call me auntie. I'm tired of my kids making me feel older than what I am. It's the little running joke. We need to get mom a life alert. No, you don't. I'm fine, I don't need a life alert, I'm not that old. Fuck them kids. Fuck them kids, right.
Speaker 5:I'm sick and tired of when we talked about this. I'm sick and tired of the silver foxes getting all this shine and being fine and being zaddies and we, just old ass women are supposed to be home and not do anything with ourselves.
Speaker 4:I'm tired of judgments.
Speaker 5:Y'all got to wait a minute. I'm tired, I'm tired.
Speaker 3:I'm tired of judgments.
Speaker 5:I'm tired of people, you know, judging you. Get a damn life, go get a life. And I'm going to tell you something I'm tired of the bullies that's on social media Especially and I'm just going to keep it 100, the women, the women. We've got to stop Everything that we see on social media. When you start looking at comments, the way we go for each other and the things that we say about each other, it really shows your pain. So a whole lot of people need some healing. Go find you a therapist. I'm sick of it. Like we gotta do better, and so, if this what we're doing right now, don't do anything else, but help us understand who we are so we can stop projecting our unhappiness on other people. Yes, let's just do that, but I'm really sick of it All right, man.
Speaker 2:Well, we were going to play a little game. At the end we were going to do a little rant, but Sharisa just kicked that off, she kicked that off. Well we actually put a post up on social media and we selected one that a caller a voicemail from one of our new followers that I would love for you guys to hear. It's a little bit of bit of twist on it, okay, something that one of our new followers is sick and tired of, okay so we gave.
Speaker 2:We gave them a chance to be able to rant as well okay, so we're gonna play this for you guys, let's check this out.
Speaker 1:What's up? What's up? It's Felicia Hill, aka Philly Hill, out of Ohio, and let me tell you what I'm sick of. I'm sick of these entitled teenagers who act like the world just opened up 15 years ago. Shit, like everything they going through ain't nobody else been through. You can't tell them shit, you can't give them shit, you can't take away shit, you can't, you can't do shit with them. They so in and out, up and down. And I'm also sick of social media, for all you know everybody getting catfished before and's gonna put up a before and after picture, your most ugliest picture, with your most nappy hair and no teeth, and then turn around and put a full face makeup on and you don't look nothing like you looked at man who does that? Everybody's getting catfished.
Speaker 1:Lastly, I'm a proud black lesbian, but I want to go back in the closet. Hell, I don't know who to play with. We finally get some recognition and we got men with full beards, cinderella dresses and glitter on their eyelashes. Bitches, everybody look like Lil Baby, except for the ones who dress like TI. And they got 5 inch eyelashes and 3 inch fingernails. Who do I play with? Oh damn, yep, put me back in the closet. Oh God, I'm going back in the closet. Oh God, deuces.
Speaker 3:When I tell you that lady sick and tired.
Speaker 2:Oh Woo, sick and tired, I told you there was a little bit of a twist, woo, I told you there was a little bit of a twist because, whether your sexual orientation or not, you are still a woman in midlife so we have a midlife lesbian that says she want to go back in the closet.
Speaker 3:So we're sick and tired, get in the closet. Going back in the closet oh, who do I play?
Speaker 1:with who do I play with? Who do I play with who?
Speaker 2:do I play with? Who do I play with? Who do I play with? Who do I play with? You two? We're going to have to separate y'all too, like we have to do at school. We're going to have to separate y'all like we do at school.
Speaker 5:So I thought that was a little bit of a twist, because we needed to hear that perspective.
Speaker 2:She tired.
Speaker 5:She tired, she sick. And tired she is.
Speaker 2:Jesus.
Speaker 3:Stephanie's stressed out.
Speaker 2:Oh, my God.
Speaker 3:Or you're going to just continue. So do you deal with someone with a side tooth or do you say you know what? I'm just not dating, Everybody got problems and I'm just going to chill on my own. So, Allegra, side tooth or side lines.
Speaker 2:Well, I think it's unfair, since I just lost one of my teeth. It's okay.
Speaker 3:I've lost teeth too, it's okay.
Speaker 2:Well, I had a root canal and the crown came off. And when I went to go have it replaced, the doctor said I now have to have a body odor mixed with cologne. You sure, do you?
Speaker 5:smell body odor mixed with cologne.
Speaker 3:Sweet funk. I've never, I've never. I've never I've never, but you know what, oh God? It takes me to a story, oh Lord.
Speaker 2:Y'all sit back, here we go. Oh Jesus, stephanie and her stories, oh.
Speaker 3:God. So, because I, like Amanda Smilga, I started dating this guy and it was his birthday or whatever, and I got him some cologne and so my kids were smaller and I would go to his house and we'd hang out and they'd be like, all right, I'll see you tomorrow. And I ran home before my kids got up to go to school. So I never spent day in and day out with him to see how his hygiene and stuff was, but he lived in a very nice place, a high end place or whatever, and he was making money or whatever. So I was like, oh, he's a great dude, and so we went on a cruise. And so then this is when I got to be, you know, there with him day in and day out, and I remember it was my first cruise and I had, like, all these suitcases. It was only for three days, but I just had all these suitcases because I didn't know any better, and he just had this one little duffel bag.
Speaker 3:I was like that's all you want. Yeah, yeah, it don't take a lot of me.
Speaker 2:And I was like, oh OK, so we get on the ship and he's like I'm gonna go play some basketball, whatever he wants and he plays basketball and so he comes back we already we already bracing ourselves for this story where you going girl.
Speaker 3:He comes back and he takes all his clothes off in the room and, just like, threw everything on the floor and he ran in the shower and took a shower. So he coming out, he talking, he drying off, drying off, and then he picks the same drawers.
Speaker 4:Do not tell me that. Do not tell me that he picks up the same drawers he had on flips them bitches inside out and put them back on.
Speaker 2:I've seen a young girl do that before. What? Well, she was a child and didn't know any better, because that was what her mother taught her what? So when she came to our house she did that and at you know, god rest her soul my mother, um would lay clothes out for her. When she came, and she noticed all the clothes were gone except for the underwear. So she called her back in the room and was like sweetheart, um, did you bring your own underwear or something she's like? No, I just put the ones on. I already had. I just turned them inside out. They weren't that dirty, but if that's, what your her mother taught her.
Speaker 4:Now, that was also a child.
Speaker 2:Yeah that was also a child but, for a grown man not just underwear.
Speaker 3:But you hooped in those yeah, that's what I'm saying sweaty workout drawers. I didn't talk to you the rest of the cruise.
Speaker 2:It was so but you already gave him something, though, didn't you?
Speaker 3:Before we got on the cruise.
Speaker 3:And then that's when I realized he was dirty before the cruise that was the first time he did that. Oh, that was terrible. He was dirty before the cruise. Yeah, I didn't talk to you the rest of the cruise. On the way back in the car I was like, don't call me. Well, in the car I was like don't call me. Did you say anything? Yes, and I was like yo, what hey? He said I think in the military. He said they taught them to do that and I was like, yeah, because you're in the jungle.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's different.
Speaker 3:Yeah, but you're in the real world like you came I was like oh and then that's when I realized his hygiene wasn't up to par and I was like, yeah, I can't be dealing with you, it's just ew, that's a story for you.
Speaker 5:It was so terrible, so that's why his bag was so little. He had no hair drawers.
Speaker 2:He only had the drawers he was wearing. He didn't have briefs, that's so terrible.
Speaker 3:I thought you were going to say you were going to put the shorts back on. I was like ugh. But then you said the drawers.
Speaker 2:I know I was like no the drawers.
Speaker 3:Yeah, it was gross.
Speaker 2:But that's part of, I think, getting older.
Speaker 5:I don't know why this one think that if they bust it, they're going to be the good to you.
Speaker 3:Yeah she always say the busted ones going to be, so they're going to just love. I think they feel like they can get anybody so they don't have to treat you well.
Speaker 3:The busted ones do too if they feel like they caught a woman of a substance and a certain look, then they start feeling themselves like, oh and then. So what I have found is that other women will be like, well, why she with him? He must have some money or he laying down some good pain, so then them women will try him, knowing they ain't attracted to him. They just like why is she with him? She must be with him for a certain reason and they'll try him and him like oh, I got more women.
Speaker 3:Yeah and then they start messing around and he like Fuck, I put you on the map.
Speaker 5:That's why you can't be running around upgrading people.
Speaker 2:Stephanie, her being stories, the stories, the stories, y'all the stories.
Speaker 5:She got them for sure.
Speaker 4:So this is one of them games that you kind of see on Instagram too. Nothing too crazy. You have $12. So every row has a dollar value, and you have to spend no more than these $12 to build your ideal partner or your ideal cutie. So I'm going to put 30 seconds on the clock.
Speaker 3:Let's do 45 seconds 45 seconds on the clock For us to think.
Speaker 4:Yeah, for you to think Get your answer together, do your mental math, get your calculations and whatnot. And then everybody got to give an answer Okay.
Speaker 2:Okay, calculations and whatnot. And then everybody got to give answer Okay, okay, we got to spend $12.
Speaker 4:12. Yeah, they got $12.
Speaker 2:We have $12. All right, 45 seconds. I know I'm already over now.
Speaker 1:Can we do two of the?
Speaker 2:same thing, yeah, yeah, you can do whichever. Oh my God, I'm so.
Speaker 3:It's shallow Right.
Speaker 2:That too, I'm shallow.
Speaker 3:I'm shallow.
Speaker 2:I have a feeling I think I know.
Speaker 3:I want to say it's romantic.
Speaker 2:but or sexual prowess. Oh, I want to, because sex is very important, so I'm going to go with sexual prowess.
Speaker 4:Okay.
Speaker 3:So he could be a little man, is what you're saying?
Speaker 2:Well, it says six feet plus, but with my shoes and my height I need six five. So even six foot is too short.
Speaker 4:That's not fair. My dad is six one.
Speaker 2:I know, but I wasn't wearing heels like this with your daddy. I was still hooping, so I was in a lot of sneakers.
Speaker 3:So he could be a little man, as long as he has sexual pride.
Speaker 2:No, he still can't be a little man, but you didn't choose six feet plus yeah, so he's going to be a little guy.
Speaker 3:No, yeah. He's going to be a little guy and he's going to climb your tree. Yeah, and that's what you asked him for.
Speaker 2:He's still going to be tall. He's still going to be tall, but I'm going to say sexual prowess Because I yeah sex got to be good. I don't care what anybody say, sex is important, would you?
Speaker 1:date a shorter guy.
Speaker 2:No, I don't date shorter men.
Speaker 3:What if he has everything else? He has a whole board but he's 515.
Speaker 2:Well, this is part of my triggers, my trigger and and um problems that I probably need to address from childhood, but it was all. I've been this height since I've been in the sixth grade shit.
Speaker 2:Now I only weigh, I look like I've only weighed 90 pounds, but I have been five nine. I'm five nine, 5'9 right now. I've been 5'9 since the sixth grade and so height it's a thing for me, because I always I was taller than most teachers I ever had. You know, remember back in elementary school how you used to dress up for Halloween. We used to play a game all the time Back then.
Speaker 2:That's when every costume had masks you know, you went to the store, you had the ghost mask, you had the every costume came with a mask, so you would come to school in your mask and you can sit anywhere because you know you had assigned seats. You could sit anywhere in the room and the teacher would have to guess who was who they knew you every time.
Speaker 3:Yeah, they knew you every time.
Speaker 2:I was was who they knew you every time I'm the first one because I was taller than all the boys.
Speaker 4:I was taller than everybody, so you always knew who I was.
Speaker 2:so for me height is important. No, I do not date a man smaller than me or shorter than me, and he must accommodate my heels, because for me that's part of my security, that's part of me feeling safe, that's part of me feeling protected. And I am a tomboy, so that tomboy kind of come out with a little man.
Speaker 3:Aw, you throw him away, get your little ass.
Speaker 2:On a later episode we'll talk to a therapist and unpack that but for me right now, yes, life is important, so we go with sex because sex is important um, I also want, I don't think, five dollars has ever had that much meaning to me.
Speaker 5:$5. Let me eat.
Speaker 2:Get your $5 worth. Get your $5 worth. Okay, he has to have a good sense of humor. I was going to say financially stable. I would have said financially stable a few years ago, years ago. I agree with that, but at this stage, you're going to get what you're going to get. Get what you're going to get, and if I'm in a financial position to manage the family and whatever we contribute together, I'm okay with me making more money than him and stuff I mean, I don't want him to be frivolous with money, but he has to have a good sense of humor.
Speaker 2:I want to be able to have fun and enjoy the person. I want to like you even if we're not dating Right Okay, and enjoy the person that I want. I want to like you even if we're not dating.
Speaker 4:Right, okay.
Speaker 2:So you've got to have a good sense of humor. And I'm around some crazy-ass folks. Hello, so you've got to have a good sense of humor. So that's nine, and then I'm going to go with, because none of the other ones really matter to me too much. I'm going to go with. Always smell good.
Speaker 3:Okay, okay. In today's society, having your own car is not not always guaranteed.
Speaker 2:So you know, I was gonna say your own car me too, but that's cool.
Speaker 4:You can pick him up from the bus stop and be like you smell good, you smell so good.
Speaker 5:Hey, I can't even.
Speaker 4:I can't even smell that water on you, baby.
Speaker 2:You smell good right at the bus stop you in a good way. Yeah, right at the bus stop. Yeah, hey, he might, but you know what a lot of people take uber and don't have cars some people live in the city don't need cars the car. Ain't that important to me? Not at this stage. Younger leger would be like you ain't got.
Speaker 5:Your own car, you ain't got this.
Speaker 2:But yeah, but at this stage and only because the other ones nice body, all that kind of stuff, hell, we all in the gym still trying to get it together. So I'm okay with that and I like a little big boy, I like a little meat on him. Okay, that might have been too much for you, but I like a little meat on him.
Speaker 4:Yeah, we were pushing it with sexual prowess. I know you're right. I think we've crossed that line.
Speaker 2:I didn't go into detail, but you know what I'm saying. Okay, miss Evania, I just want to say for the record Stephanie, your hair is killing, right now.
Speaker 1:It's so cute. I'm looking at the print.
Speaker 2:Turn to the camera so I can see the design and the print I was just like. Come on, stephanie.
Speaker 3:She's so jazzy y'all. The original barber doll. Okay, well, show her, that's right. The original barber doll. Okay, where'd they find her? She bad, where'd she?
Speaker 5:go Katie On.
Speaker 3:Instagram Original barber doll.
Speaker 5:That's a cute doll.
Speaker 2:That's a cute doll. I love that. Yeah, she slayed your hair. These people Ersher, hello, name drop.
Speaker 3:Stephanie, are we doing the same thing?
Speaker 2:Are you using the same?
Speaker 3:clip the same clippers.
Speaker 2:Stephanie Put his clippers on me, girl.
Speaker 1:Yes, yes, yes I just had to say that I caught a look and I was like, okay, look, I'm through hair, thank you.
Speaker 2:But, sometimes it's hard to set boundaries with your adult children, With your children because I've set boundaries.
Speaker 3:You guys figure it out. That's my thing now, because I know I've done what I needed to do and I'm not going to be as accessible to you. But then I'll get a voicemail, a message on my phone. I don't care if you're on a date, you answer the phone for us and I'm like they're bullying me, like I'm being like cyber bully from my kids because I set that boundary. I'm like well, how did you respond?
Speaker 5:my girl please, and.
Speaker 3:I'll clap my phone and put it up. No, no, you're gonna be okay. And another episode of timeless is unfiltered and I'm legra. I'm.
Speaker 2:Stephanie, I'm Sharice and I'm Evania and we gonna keep on, keep on, keep on spilling the tea on midlife one laugh at a time, thank you guys like follow subscribe. Yes, like follow and subscribe right now. Thanks for watching.
