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Meet The Timeless & Unfiltered Hosts

Speaker 1

You've loved Timeless and Unfiltered to this point , and we can't wait to share more . Today , we're giving you the best moments of what we shared thus far Enjoy .

Speaker 3

This is Lagra . This is Stephanie . This is Cherie .

Speaker 2

And this is Ivanya , and this is Evania . And this is Timeless and Unfiltered , where we are spilling the tea on midlife , one laugh at a time . Damn , we got kids Y'all making us talk about the kids . Well , I am Legra . I am the creator of Timeless and Unfiltered , since we talking about children . I have one son who happens to be the EP of our show . Unfiltered , since we talked about children . I have one son who happens to be the EP .

Speaker 2

he's the best and I have an adopted son . You don't know it yet . He's my adopted son . I am a little bit everything . I'm a serial entrepreneur and I'm just . This idea just came in my mind because I am 55 .

Speaker 3

And looking fine .

Speaker 2

Lifetime fanny .

Speaker 4

And looking fine , yeah , come on .

Speaker 2

But something happened about 50 . Something happened about 50 . There was a shift in the atmosphere . I wasn't a hot girl , no more . You still are , you are . I am to the youngins now . I don't get carded anymore .

Speaker 1

I'm a lot of things .

Speaker 3

I work hard , I work a lot , and now I'm co-host and I am finding my voice . I am blossoming , I'm growing . And now I'm co-host Yay , and I am finding my voice . I am blossoming , I'm growing and I'm just so proud to be here with you , ladies . Aww , I'm sorry I forgot to talk about my kids . Oh okay , go ahead , go watch your kids . I got kids , three of them . The body made me feel like shit . She's like am I mother ?

Speaker 5

I was like shit disregarded my children .

Speaker 1

I had three children .

Speaker 2

I love them . I didn't either . So three daughters , beautiful daughters , adults , damn it right . Well , let's kind of tell them a little bit how our , our podcast is going to work . Yeah , oh yeah we're going to talk about some topics . You guys can suggest topics for us . Oh wait , I'm sorry , I forgot to introduce our fifth co-host .

Speaker 3

Oh , I'm looking in your eyeball . I know right your hair . I'm like where is it ? I don't see it .

Speaker 2

I know this is our fifth co-host because of the hot flashes . Hello midlife , the hot flashes . You will see this come out quite often . I usually try to slide it in on the side or something , but uh , you'll see , you'll see our fifth co-host this fan this is real and raw real and raw because I will melt in front of this camera if I don't have it .

Speaker 2

So this , my fan follows me everywhere and you'll , you'll hear , uh , stephanie a few times with some of her little weird um , and we gonna say weird they're true , her little , weird little ways of fixing things .

Speaker 3

It's true .

Speaker 2

Scientifically I'm a nerd .

Speaker 3

It's true , like clutching your butt cheeks if you're going to cry Hiccups , how to stop the hiccups ? How to stop the hiccups , and I've just seen that if you lay , if you're gassy , if you sleep on your stomach and lift your butt , that'll help with the release . What See ? Okay ,

Sick and Tired of Midlife Stereotypes

Speaker 3

we doing the red . No , might as well we in there now . I'm sick and tired of being in the box . I'm also sick and tired of if I pee I mean not if I cough or sneeze a pee on myself .

Speaker 2

Sorry , it's gonna happen to everybody not being included , not on the couch . Not only don't laugh hard , it's gonna happen .

Speaker 3

Um , I'm sick and tired of the younger women coming up to me saying auntie , I have 12 nieces and 12 nephews . You're not one of them , so don't call me auntie . I'm tired of my kids making me feel older than what I am . It's the little running joke . We need to get mom a life alert . No , you don't . I'm fine , I don't need a life alert , I'm not that old . Fuck them kids . Fuck them kids , right .

Speaker 5

I'm sick and tired of when we talked about this . I'm sick and tired of the silver foxes getting all this shine and being fine and being zaddies and we , just old ass women are supposed to be home and not do anything with ourselves .

Speaker 4

I'm tired of judgments .

Speaker 5

Y'all got to wait a minute . I'm tired , I'm tired .

Speaker 3

I'm tired of judgments .

Speaker 5

I'm tired of people , you know , judging you . Get a damn life , go get a life . And I'm going to tell you something I'm tired of the bullies that's on social media Especially and I'm just going to keep it 100 , the women , the women . We've got to stop Everything that we see on social media . When you start looking at comments , the way we go for each other and the things that we say about each other , it really shows your pain . So a whole lot of people need some healing . Go find you a therapist . I'm sick of it . Like we gotta do better , and so , if this what we're doing right now , don't do anything else , but help us understand who we are so we can stop projecting our unhappiness on other people . Yes , let's just do that , but I'm really sick of it All right , man .

Speaker 2

Well , we were going to play a little game . At the end we were going to do a little rant , but Sharisa just kicked that off , she kicked that off . Well we actually put a post up on social media and we selected one that a caller a voicemail from one of our new followers that I would love for you guys to hear . It's a little bit of bit of twist on it , okay , something that one of our new followers is sick and tired of , okay so we gave .

Speaker 2

We gave them a chance to be able to rant as well okay , so we're gonna play this for you guys , let's check this out .

Speaker 1

What's up ? What's

Follower Rant: The Entitled Teens

Speaker 1

up ? It's Felicia Hill , aka Philly Hill , out of Ohio , and let me tell you what I'm sick of . I'm sick of these entitled teenagers who act like the world just opened up 15 years ago . Shit , like everything they going through ain't nobody else been through . You can't tell them shit , you can't give them shit , you can't take away shit , you can't , you can't do shit with them . They so in and out , up and down . And I'm also sick of social media , for all you know everybody getting catfished before and's gonna put up a before and after picture , your most ugliest picture , with your most nappy hair and no teeth , and then turn around and put a full face makeup on and you don't look nothing like you looked at man who does that ? Everybody's getting catfished .

Speaker 1

Lastly , I'm a proud black lesbian , but I want to go back in the closet . Hell , I don't know who to play with . We finally get some recognition and we got men with full beards , cinderella dresses and glitter on their eyelashes . Bitches , everybody look like Lil Baby , except for the ones who dress like TI . And they got 5 inch eyelashes and 3 inch fingernails . Who do I play with ? Oh damn , yep , put me back in the closet . Oh God , I'm going back in the closet . Oh God , deuces .

Speaker 3

When I tell you that lady sick and tired .

Speaker 2

Oh Woo , sick and tired , I told you there was a little bit of a twist , woo , I told you there was a little bit of a twist because , whether your sexual orientation or not , you are still a woman in midlife so we have a midlife lesbian that says she want to go back in the closet .

Speaker 3

So we're sick and tired , get in the closet . Going back in the closet oh , who do I play ?

Speaker 1

with who do I play with ? Who do I play with who ?

Speaker 2

do I play with ? Who do I play with ? Who do I play with ? Who do I play with ? You two ? We're going to have to separate y'all too , like we have to do at school . We're going to have to separate y'all like we do at school .

Speaker 5

So I thought that was a little bit of a twist , because we needed to hear that perspective .

Speaker 2

She tired .

Speaker 5

She tired , she sick . And tired she is .

Speaker 2

Jesus .

Speaker 3

Stephanie's stressed out .

Speaker 2

Oh , my God .

Speaker 3

Or you're going to just continue . So do you deal with someone with a side tooth or do you say you know what ? I'm just not dating , Everybody got problems and I'm just going to chill on my own . So , Allegra ,

Dating Dealbreakers and Horror Stories

Speaker 3

side tooth or side lines .

Speaker 2

Well , I think it's unfair , since I just lost one of my teeth . It's okay .

Speaker 3

I've lost teeth too , it's okay .

Speaker 2

Well , I had a root canal and the crown came off . And when I went to go have it replaced , the doctor said I now have to have a body odor mixed with cologne . You sure , do you ?

Speaker 5

smell body odor mixed with cologne .

Speaker 3

Sweet funk . I've never , I've never . I've never I've never , but you know what , oh God ? It takes me to a story , oh Lord .

Speaker 2

Y'all sit back , here we go . Oh Jesus , stephanie and her stories , oh .

Speaker 3

God . So , because I , like Amanda Smilga , I started dating this guy and it was his birthday or whatever , and I got him some cologne and so my kids were smaller and I would go to his house and we'd hang out and they'd be like , all right , I'll see you tomorrow . And I ran home before my kids got up to go to school . So I never spent day in and day out with him to see how his hygiene and stuff was , but he lived in a very nice place , a high end place or whatever , and he was making money or whatever . So I was like , oh , he's a great dude , and so we went on a cruise . And so then this is when I got to be , you know , there with him day in and day out , and I remember it was my first cruise and I had , like , all these suitcases . It was only for three days , but I just had all these suitcases because I didn't know any better , and he just had this one little duffel bag .

Speaker 3

I was like that's all you want . Yeah , yeah , it don't take a lot of me .

Speaker 2

And I was like , oh OK , so we get on the ship and he's like I'm gonna go play some basketball , whatever he wants and he plays basketball and so he comes back we already we already bracing ourselves for this story where you going girl .

Speaker 3

He comes back and he takes all his clothes off in the room and , just like , threw everything on the floor and he ran in the shower and took a shower . So he coming out , he talking , he drying off , drying off , and then he picks the same drawers .

Speaker 4

Do not tell me that . Do not tell me that he picks up the same drawers he had on flips them bitches inside out and put them back on .

Speaker 2

I've seen a young girl do that before . What ? Well , she was a child and didn't know any better , because that was what her mother taught her what ? So when she came to our house she did that and at you know , god rest her soul my mother , um would lay clothes out for her . When she came , and she noticed all the clothes were gone except for the underwear . So she called her back in the room and was like sweetheart , um , did you bring your own underwear or something she's like ? No , I just put the ones on . I already had . I just turned them inside out . They weren't that dirty , but if that's , what your her mother taught her .

Speaker 4

Now , that was also a child .

Speaker 2

Yeah that was also a child but , for a grown man not just underwear .

Speaker 3

But you hooped in those yeah , that's what I'm saying sweaty workout drawers . I didn't talk to you the rest of the cruise .

Speaker 2

It was so but you already gave him something , though , didn't you ?

Speaker 3

Before we got on the cruise .

Speaker 3

And then that's when I realized he was dirty before the cruise that was the first time he did that . Oh , that was terrible . He was dirty before the cruise . Yeah , I didn't talk to you the rest of the cruise . On the way back in the car I was like , don't call me . Well , in the car I was like don't call me . Did you say anything ? Yes , and I was like yo , what hey ? He said I think in the military . He said they taught them to do that and I was like , yeah , because you're in the jungle .

Speaker 2

Yeah , that's different .

Speaker 3

Yeah , but you're in the real world like you came I was like oh and then that's when I realized his hygiene wasn't up to par and I was like , yeah , I can't be dealing with you , it's just ew , that's a story for you .

Speaker 5

It was so terrible , so that's why his bag was so little . He had no hair drawers .

Speaker 2

He only had the drawers he was wearing . He didn't have briefs , that's so terrible .

Speaker 3

I thought you were going to say you were going to put the shorts back on . I was like ugh . But then you said the drawers .

Speaker 2

I know I was like no the drawers .

Speaker 3

Yeah , it was gross .

Speaker 2

But that's part of , I think , getting older .

Speaker 5

I don't know why this one think that if they bust it , they're going to be the good to you .

Speaker 3

Yeah she always say the busted ones going to be , so they're going to just love . I think they feel like they can get anybody so they don't have to treat you well .

Speaker 3

The busted ones do too if they feel like they caught a woman of a substance and a certain look , then they start feeling themselves like , oh and then . So what I have found is that other women will be like , well , why she with him ? He must have some money or he laying down some good pain , so then them women will try him , knowing they ain't attracted to him . They just like why is she with him ? She must be with him for a certain reason and they'll try him and him like oh , I got more women .

Speaker 3

Yeah and then they start messing around and he like Fuck , I put you on the map .

Speaker 5

That's why you can't be running around upgrading people .

Speaker 2

Stephanie , her being stories , the stories , the stories , y'all the stories .

Speaker 5

She got them for sure .

Speaker 4

So this is one of them games that you kind of see on Instagram too . Nothing too crazy .

Spending $12 on Your Ideal Partner

Speaker 4

You have $12 . So every row has a dollar value , and you have to spend no more than these $12 to build your ideal partner or your ideal cutie . So I'm going to put 30 seconds on the clock .

Speaker 3

Let's do 45 seconds 45 seconds on the clock For us to think .

Speaker 4

Yeah , for you to think Get your answer together , do your mental math , get your calculations and whatnot . And then everybody got to give an answer Okay .

Speaker 2

Okay , calculations and whatnot . And then everybody got to give answer Okay , okay , we got to spend $12 .

Speaker 4

12 . Yeah , they got $12 .

Speaker 2

We have $12 . All right , 45 seconds . I know I'm already over now .

Speaker 1

Can we do two of the ?

Speaker 2

same thing , yeah , yeah , you can do whichever . Oh my God , I'm so .

Speaker 3

It's shallow Right .

Speaker 2

That too , I'm shallow .

Speaker 3

I'm shallow .

Speaker 2

I have a feeling I think I know .

Speaker 3

I want to say it's romantic .

Speaker 2

but or sexual prowess . Oh , I want to , because sex is very important , so I'm going to go with sexual prowess .

Speaker 4

Okay .

Speaker 3

So he could be a little man , is what you're saying ?

Speaker 2

Well , it says six feet plus , but with my shoes and my height I need six five . So even six foot is too short .

Speaker 4

That's not fair . My dad is six one .

Speaker 2

I know , but I wasn't wearing heels like this with your daddy . I was still hooping , so I was in a lot of sneakers .

Speaker 3

So he could be a little man , as long as he has sexual pride .

Speaker 2

No , he still can't be a little man , but you didn't choose six feet plus yeah , so he's going to be a little guy .

Speaker 3

No , yeah . He's going to be a little guy and he's going to climb your tree . Yeah , and that's what you asked him for .

Speaker 2

He's still going to be tall . He's still going to be tall , but I'm going to say sexual prowess Because I yeah sex got to be good . I don't care what anybody say , sex is important , would you ?

Speaker 1

date a shorter guy .

Speaker 2

No , I don't date shorter men .

Speaker 3

What if he has everything else ? He has a whole board but he's 515 .

Speaker 2

Well , this is part of my triggers , my trigger and and um problems that I probably need to address from childhood , but it was all . I've been this height since I've been in the sixth grade shit .

Speaker 2

Now I only weigh , I look like I've only weighed 90 pounds , but I have been five nine . I'm five nine , 5'9 right now . I've been 5'9 since the sixth grade and so height it's a thing for me , because I always I was taller than most teachers I ever had . You know , remember back in elementary school how you used to dress up for Halloween . We used to play a game all the time Back then .

Speaker 2

That's when every costume had masks you know , you went to the store , you had the ghost mask , you had the every costume came with a mask , so you would come to school in your mask and you can sit anywhere because you know you had assigned seats . You could sit anywhere in the room and the teacher would have to guess who was who they knew you every time .

Speaker 3

Yeah , they knew you every time .

Speaker 2

I was was who they knew you every time I'm the first one because I was taller than all the boys .

Speaker 4

I was taller than everybody , so you always knew who I was .

Speaker 2

so for me height is important . No , I do not date a man smaller than me or shorter than me , and he must accommodate my heels , because for me that's part of my security , that's part of me feeling safe , that's part of me feeling protected . And I am a tomboy , so that tomboy kind of come out with a little man .

Speaker 3

Aw , you throw him away , get your little ass .

Speaker 2

On a later episode we'll talk to a therapist and unpack that but for me right now , yes , life is important , so we go with sex because sex is important um , I also want , I don't think , five dollars has ever had that much meaning to me .

Speaker 5

$5 . Let me eat .

Speaker 2

Get your $5 worth . Get your $5 worth . Okay , he has to have a good sense of humor . I was going to say financially stable . I would have said financially stable a few years ago , years ago . I agree with that , but at this stage , you're going to get what you're going to get . Get what you're going to get , and if I'm in a financial position to manage the family and whatever we contribute together , I'm okay with me making more money than him and stuff I mean , I don't want him to be frivolous with money , but he has to have a good sense of humor .

Speaker 2

I want to be able to have fun and enjoy the person . I want to like you even if we're not dating Right Okay , and enjoy the person that I want . I want to like you even if we're not dating .

Speaker 4

Right , okay .

Speaker 2

So you've got to have a good sense of humor . And I'm around some crazy-ass folks . Hello , so you've got to have a good sense of humor . So that's nine , and then I'm going to go with , because none of the other ones really matter to me too much . I'm going to go with . Always smell good .

Speaker 3

Okay , okay . In today's society , having your own car is not not always guaranteed .

Speaker 2

So you know , I was gonna say your own car me too , but that's cool .

Speaker 4

You can pick him up from the bus stop and be like you smell good , you smell so good .

Speaker 5

Hey , I can't even .

Speaker 4

I can't even smell that water on you , baby .

Speaker 2

You smell good right at the bus stop you in a good way . Yeah , right at the bus stop . Yeah , hey , he might , but you know what a lot of people take uber and don't have cars some people live in the city don't need cars the car . Ain't that important to me ? Not at this stage . Younger leger would be like you ain't got .

Speaker 5

Your own car , you ain't got this .

Speaker 2

But yeah , but at this stage and only because the other ones nice body , all that kind of stuff , hell , we all in the gym still trying to get it together . So I'm okay with that and I like a little big boy , I like a little meat on him . Okay , that might have been too much for you , but I like a little meat on him .

Speaker 4

Yeah , we were pushing it with sexual prowess . I know you're right . I think we've crossed that line .

Speaker 2

I didn't go into detail , but you know what I'm saying . Okay , miss Evania , I just want

Setting Boundaries with Adult Children

Speaker 2

to say for the record Stephanie , your hair is killing , right now .

Speaker 1

It's so cute . I'm looking at the print .

Speaker 2

Turn to the camera so I can see the design and the print I was just like . Come on , stephanie .

Speaker 3

She's so jazzy y'all . The original barber doll . Okay , well , show her , that's right . The original barber doll . Okay , where'd they find her ? She bad , where'd she ?

Speaker 5

go Katie On .

Speaker 3

Instagram Original barber doll .

Speaker 5

That's a cute doll .

Speaker 2

That's a cute doll . I love that . Yeah , she slayed your hair . These people Ersher , hello , name drop .

Speaker 3

Stephanie , are we doing the same thing ?

Speaker 2

Are you using the same ?

Speaker 3

clip the same clippers .

Speaker 2

Stephanie Put his clippers on me , girl .

Speaker 1

Yes , yes , yes I just had to say that I caught a look and I was like , okay , look , I'm through hair , thank you .

Speaker 2

But , sometimes it's hard to set boundaries with your adult children , With your children because I've set boundaries .

Speaker 3

You guys figure it out . That's my thing now , because I know I've done what I needed to do and I'm not going to be as accessible to you . But then I'll get a voicemail , a message on my phone . I don't care if you're on a date , you answer the phone for us and I'm like they're bullying me , like I'm being like cyber bully from my kids because I set that boundary . I'm like well , how did you respond ?

Speaker 5

my girl please , and .

Speaker 3

I'll clap my phone and put it up . No , no , you're gonna be okay . And another episode of timeless is unfiltered and I'm legra . I'm .

Speaker 2

Stephanie , I'm Sharice and I'm Evania and we gonna keep on , keep on , keep on spilling the tea on midlife one laugh at a time , thank you guys like follow subscribe

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Speaker 2

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